Beyond the ordinary

My Story :  Well the after the wedding things were ok but soon things went down hill. He started complaining about certain things like you don't wash the dishes right, you don't clean the house right, it got to the point that he would just stand over me while I was doing something so he could tell me I was doing it wrong. So what did I do? I tried harder to do things better, doing this made me exhausted. When I would try to take a nap, he would continually enter the room and make a lot of noise so I couldn't rest. He would make most of the decisions. And he would ask me for my opinion, but never take it, so I asked him why do you even ask me for my opinion? He would just ignore me after, by walking away. I would still try to do nice things for him and he never would say thank you. So I asked him why don't you ever say thank you? I would get just a condescending Thank you. When he would come home from work I would have the house clean and dinner cooked, he would walk in with a disgusted, angry look on his face and would say "I know you have been watching TV and movies all day, How many movies have you watched? I would ask him how can I watch movies all day when I clean the house and cook dinner and do whatever you asked me to do for the day. It didn't matter what I did, It was wrong. The trip to Mexico was a nightmare. One day we went to see his aunt and uncle and they lived near the bottom of a mountain, It was getting dark and It was the first time I ever been there. He walked so fast up ahead of me I kept calling his name but he just kept walking. The day we were traveling to a different part of Mexico he claimed that someone stole his passport, he was acting so weird I knew something wasn't right. He called the embassy and he said they told him to go to Mexico City. It was about 14 hours from where we were at . He pretended he found his found his passport and I said "ok you don't have to go". He called the embassy again and he said they told him to come anyway so there won't be any problems when we return to USA. He told me that my daughter I and stay where we are at and he would go to Mexico City himself. He left us a little money told  us not to go out at night and he left. He was gone 2 or 3 days. He called and wanted to stay longer. I just have a feeling he wanted to meet someone there without me and my daughter around. Some years later I ask him where did you stay when you were in Mexico City? He said he didn't remember and he tried to get me off the subject quick. I could go on for at least another 10 hours, but what Im trying to say is I know everyones situation is different but I will know where you're coming from. I will take the time to listen with compassion and understanding. I started this company because I didn't know what was going on in my marriage, when I look up the behaviors I started to understand what was going on. I knew there had to be more women going through this who need help. Thats why I am doing this. Please call and we can journey calm waters together, and regain confidence, and empowerment. TG